Trust: The Shit Responsible For Every Shattered Soul | By Nwaorgu Anayochi

By Nwaorgu Anayochi

Trust me, I won’t hurt you.
Trust me, I won’t disappoint you.
Trust me, I won’t fail you.
Trust me, It will go on well.
Trust me, it’s original.
Trust me, I will always be here for you.
Trust me, I won’t leave you.

Sounds familiar? Aren’t they? Perhaps you have been told one or more of those lines before you were taken by surprise.

Those are the normal rhetorics people use before the other becomes their victim.

Trust is essential in every relationship. Be it business, friendship or romantic relationship. It’s very vital.

That’s why In my own thoughts, I believe that to be trusted is a better compliment than to be loved.

But this has wreck so many souls. In every case of disappointment, heart break, trust is responsible.

We all have been victims in one way or another. Maybe in business or in a romantic relationships.
In most cases, it doesn’t always end well. Many have died because they couldn’t withstand what comes after they trusted.

You maybe duped, manipulated, Cajoled or even taken for a ride after you trust.

Those are the dangers that comes once you give your trust to people. It doesn’t matter who they are. Where they are from. Or the colour of their skin.

That’s why, before you trust, be prepared to withstand what comes with it.

However, do not mistrust when you do not have a reason not to trust. You maybe Seen as someone who needs a psychiatrist. But do not fail to guide everything that can be damaged as a result of disappointment.

When a deep wound heals, it leaves a scar at the site of the injury, thereby making the skin to be tough. That’s the same thing that happens when the heart is broken. It makes your heart to be tough and if you are not careful, you may end up becoming someone you weren’t created to be. Tough, unforgiven being, emotionally bankrupt and independent,selfish, cruel and a roaring monster seeking a heart to devour.

It’s a proven fact that, in every one who has suffered a heart break or great disappointment, one or two innocent people becomes his/her victim. And it’s like a chain reaction without a feasible end.

Therefore, it’s very sacrosanct you guide your heart against disappointments and heart breaks in order to cut or reduce the length of this chain.

We need more people with sound minds in this world. We need no more people who behave like aliens looking for a heart to wreck into pieces.