More Revelations From Ex-Female Students As Detectives Visit Dowen College

Sylvester Oromoni was only 12-years-old when his life was cut short. Before he passed on, he narrated, amidst excruciating pains, how he was beaten by some senior students of Dowen College, Lekki, Lagos, for refusing to join a cult group.

But the school, Dowen College denied the claim, alleging that he sustained injuries while playing football with his mates.

However, fresh facts on how senior students of the college had allegedly been engaged in the act of bullying for long have emerged following startling accounts by some former female pupils of Dowen of what they did to protect their siblings, especially boys, from being bullied.

Pat, who graduated from the college in 2018, said, “late Sylvester’s case isn’t the first case of bullying in Dowen college. It has been ongoing. I suspect his was taken to the extreme.

“I was forced to go into relationship with one SSS 3 boy who was a bully in 2017,. This was because he always picked on my brother who was in JSS 2.

He asked me out when I was in SSS 1 . I told him I would give it a thought . When he saw I was not forthcoming , he started bullying my brother who just came in. It got worse when he was in JSS 2. I had to give in, to save my brother the beating.

I was not the only one . Some girls in SSS 1 and and SSS 2 passed through same “.

To confirm her claim, she put a call across to one of her former classmates, who is the University of Benin, Edo State, studying Law and jokingly asked her to share her experience with bullies back in Dowen college..

Without hesitation, the girl on the other end said, “it was God that saved our brothers o, you know now”.

When told to explain further to this reporter, the lady’s voice at the other end dropped , in shock. She said, “You should have told me I was being interviewed by a journalist. Please don’t disclose my identity to her o. I repeat, you don’t have any permission to do so.

After much persuasion , coupled with a promise not to mention her name in print, the undergraduate said, “for me, I bought expensive cloths and perfumes for one particular senior then. The first time he hit my brother who was in JSS 1 , I couldn’t challenge him because other senior students would gang up against me if I did. That had been the norm. The second time , he slammed my brother’s head against the wall . That caused him to fall sick and he was going in and out of the sick bay for three days.

I summoned courage one afternoon and approached him. I begged him to stop bullying my brother that he was my parents’ only son . He said I must get him a perfume first, before he would consider my plea. I did . And all through SS 2, I kept buying him perfumes and shirts until he graduated.

The school was never aware such things were going on. And woe betide whoever went to report any case of bullying. It would be better for the child to leave the school.

But when I got to SSS 3, I defended some Junior students against bullying. The strategy I used was to make them my school children.

“Victims of bullying could easily be identified among their peers. They were usually withdrawn and live in fear. They jostle at the slightest noise.

These and other signs are what management of schools and parents should look out for”, she said.

Other schools too

It is one major tool used to initiate primary and secondary school pupils into drugs and cult groups.

A vivid case was the arrest of a Junior Secondary School female who succeeded in initiating 12 Primary and Secondary schools pupils of a government school in Igando area of the state , through the act of bullying.

Rape as form of bulling

Rape, is another form of bullying , with victims cut across both sexes. There had been reported cases of sexual assaults in secondary schools. An instance was that of an 11-year-old student of Deeper Life High School, Akwa-Ibom, Don Davis, who was sodomised by some senior students, all males , last year.

His ordeal began after some teachers reportedly sent him to SSS2 hostel because he was bed wetting.

His mother, Deborah Okezie, posted a live video on Facebook where she alleged that some Senior Secondary School 2 students in the college inserted thier fingers and toes in his son’’s anus continuously, with a threat to kill him if he told the school’s management .

The school’s principal , Ndidi Solomon, has since been suspended. But whether that action has helped to address bullying in the school or served as a wake up call to schools to map out strategies to address bullying remains another question.

Teachers as bullies

Sometimes, bullies in secondary schools, be it day or boarding, are not just the pupils but teachers who are supposed to be custodians of these pupils.

Last year, an Assistant Headmaster of Jajare Central Primary School, in Fune Local Government Area of Yobe state.Abubakar Musa, was arrested for allegedly raping a 10-year-old pupil. In this case the suspect , according to spokesman for the Yobe State Police Command , ASP Dungus Abdulkarim , had carnal knowledge of the primary 5 pupil , twice, on July 15 and 17,2021.

Another death

Late Karen-Happuch, Aonadodoo Akpagher, is one case that left many hearts shattered, just like late Sylvester Oromoni’s.

While the latter was able to state what transpired in his hostel, shortly before he breathed his last, the former didn’t.

Late Keren Akpagher, a 14 yr old pupil of Premier Academy,Lugbe Abuja died of sepsis earlier this year. She had called her mother , complaining of eye pains. But after her death, a used condom was found inside her, private part, suggesting she could have been raped. She died without mentioning names of the perpetrators. But her mother is pointing accusing fingers at the school, insisting that the pedophile was from her late daughter’s school.

Police investigation

The Lagos State Police Command has since begun investigation into the death of Oromoni Jnr. Detectives from the Homicide section of the State Criminal Intelligence and Investigation Department have visited Dowen college as part of investigation.

Five students who were arrested in connection with the JSS 2 pupil’s death have been remanded in a Juvenile home , following an order obtained from the Yaba Magistrates court by the Police..

While Nigerians await the outcome of the investigation, it is expected that measures should be put in place to discourage bullying in Nigerian schools, so as to avoid more deaths of innocent children.

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